A safe home is a happy home.  The Psalmist of the Bible describes God many times as our fortress, shepherd, deliverer, and our hiding place.  We are described as hidden safely under the protective wings of a jealous mother hen.  The New Testament describes Jesus as a good shepherd who sits guard at the only gate into a sheep pen.  No thief can attempt to steal or kill us without first getting past the shepherd.  God provides a safe home for His children.

Do our children feel they can step out of a cruel and competitive world to a home that is a safe haven?

Our children should always know that their parents will build them up so they feel good about themselves.  We must never pile on ridicule to what our children may have already faced outside the home.  Children need to know they are loved and accepted with worth regardless of the mistakes they make.  Correction is our job, but only in love and with the intent of seeing our children learn that a mistake made is a means to help in their overall development to being responsible adults.  Are our homes our children’s hiding place?

As parents we need to carefully evaluate our children’s strengths and encourage them to get involved in activities where they will succeed.  If our children know that they can do something better than most, they can accept the fact others are better than them in other areas and actually encourage their friends.  Are we good shepherds for our children?

Our children need to know that we as parents love our children unconditionally.  We can be saddened as our children make poor choices, but they need to know a genuine hug always waits for them at the doorway of our homes.  I remember sighing is relief as I opened the door to my home and smelled supper and cookies – smells of safety and love.  Are our homes a fortress for our children?

None of us are perfect as individuals – nor are our marriages perfect.  As we work together to maintain our love and a strong marriage, our homes will be a good environment for growing and happy children.